Question for Mr. Doty - The "All Opinions are Welcome, but Sorry no Instigators" Board

Date: Mon Mar 22 3:19 PM, 2004

Question for Mr. Doty

Date: Mon Mar 22 3:29 PM, 2004

perhaps he has a small $*!^$...

Date: Mon Mar 22 3:34 PM, 2004

Come on, guys, can't we talk about something more interesting...ANYTHING?

(There must be something more interesting than Ted's thingy!)

Date: Mon Mar 22 3:40 PM, 2004

Mr Dooty....
We have been looking for you, and I'm so glad we have found you.

Jack Nicholson and the Chief were very worried about you, here at the psych ward.

Oh...do you hear the announcement????
There it is again....
MEDICATION TIME.........MEDICATION TIME

Now be a good boy and swallow the pills....

And if you keep leaving with out permission.... and continue to spit out the pills, we're going to have to put you back in the straight jacket with the ball gag in your mouth again.

You know you're not ready to talk to people on the outside yet, you bad, bad boy.

Date: Mon Mar 22 8:03 PM, 2004

the intelligent soul...

Date: Tue Mar 23 10:07 AM, 2004

RE: Question for Mr. Doty

Date: Tue Mar 23 10:11 AM, 2004

Ted, now you know how Lisa must feel!

Date: Tue Mar 23 10:21 AM, 2004

Karen, get a clue.

Statements made regarding Lisa are substantive.For example I've noted that she struts across a stage, waving her hands in the air begging for donations. Now that's pretty significant. Besides Lisa can take care of herself

Date: Tue Mar 23 10:53 AM, 2004

Mr. Doty,

Please do not flatter yourself, sir. I am in no way stalking you. I simply made an observation. You are known around town, not in a good way, and it is very hard not to notice you. So, please get off your high horse and stop wishing that you could be like Mrs. Salberg. Also, would you please answer my question?

Date: Tue Mar 23 11:13 AM, 2004

You seem to be a stalker and Lisa doesn't need your help either.

You see, Lisa struts around in public forums, for the public benefit, so that she can beg for donations.

I, on the other hand, attended the tricky tray to benefit my son's school...and when I work for the public benefit I use my own money (ie I've turned down donations) and don't attempt to convince people that I'm in it for their benefit

Date: Tue Mar 23 11:54 AM, 2004

Mr. Doty,

Would you please define the word "stalker"? I was at the Tricky Tray, well before you were, sir. I do not know your family or that you even had a son, so I would not have known that you were going to be there. So, could you please tell me how exactly I am "stalking" you? Get over it. I simply made an observation. I have much more important things in my life then to stalk you. Yet, you are right about one thing, Mrs. Salberg can take care of herself and doesn't need my help. She is a strong, determined, intelligent woman who has the respect of almost all the residents of Rockaway. Jealous, much? Anyway, Mr. Doty, I commend you for going out and supporting your son's school. Yet, so did hundreds of other people. Let me guess they are all stalking you too. You have no idea who I am, yet you have already labeled me as a "stalker". I was simply asking a question that only you could answer. So, let me ask it again and this time could you please just answer it. Please do not bring Mrs. Salberg into your answer, as she has nothing to do with the question. Yet for some reason you try to bring her into every thought that you post. Why is that? Nevermind, I just want one question answered. Even though I know that you will never truly answer my question. You will bring something or someone else up in your post and complete dodge the question. You will make some snide remark or insult someone or just never reply. I have noticed that you tend to do that. I believe that is called deflection. Yet, I will try and ask my question again. Cause I believe your answer will explain alot about you, your thoughts and beliefs. Negative or Postitive? Don't know, cause you haven't answered the question. So, here it is..."Why are you such a bitter, unhappy man wanting to call people names, insult, lie and try to divide the town"?

Date: Tue Mar 23 12:21 PM, 2004

Originally posted by: Maps
"I have much more important things in my life then to stalk you.

Apparently not You go out of your way to observe and analyze my demenor at various locations

Please do not bring Mrs. Salberg into your answer, as she has nothing to do with the question. Yet for some reason you try to bring her into every thought that you post. Why is that?

I didnt bring her up, clueless Karen did re-read the posts

Why are you such a bitter, unhappy man wanting to call people names, insult, lie and try to divide the town"? "

This really isn't a question is it? It seems more like a statement. Kind of like "when did you stop beating your wife?". Besides why would I want to encourage a stalker?

Date: Tue Mar 23 12:23 PM, 2004

Dang! I could've sworn your answer would've been "...because I'm surrounded by clueless, stupid, strutting stalkers."

Date: Tue Mar 23 12:30 PM, 2004

"Dang! I could've sworn your answer would've been "...because I'm surrounded by clueless, stupid, strutting stalkers."

I considered it

Date: Tue Mar 23 1:00 PM, 2004

Hey Maps. I too was at the TT the other night. I was having fun until I was faced with looking at the idiot, Turd Dooty the rest of the night. I think thats as happy as he ever gets. Its amazing that he ever found a reasonably attractive woman like that to father a son with. Guess we should just feel sorry for the kid. Remember Turd, we ARE watching you.

Date: Tue Mar 23 1:23 PM, 2004

"Its amazing that he ever found a reasonably attractive woman like that to father a son with."

Huh? I don't know where to begin.

Should I suggest that the author take an English class to learn that one shouldn't end a sentence with a preposition?

Or should I suggest a Biology class? the attractive woman is the mother and I fathered the child. That's how it works; a man and woman don't father a child together...Maier is that you?

Date: Tue Mar 23 1:24 PM, 2004

Mr Doty, you have some serious issues.

I do not go out of my way to observe and analyze your dememor at various locations. Please do not flatter yourself. I know that you desperately want some excitement and attention in your life. Why else would you act the way you do. I was at the Tricky Tray, I noticed a lot of people's actions and facial expressions. I tend to "people watch". Call it my nature, my upbringing, my learnings, my profession, you may even call it my weird quirk, (we all have one or two). Whatever. I do not care. I like to be aware of my surroundings and the people that are around. Maybe you are not a very observant person. That's fine. But please do not assume just because someone else is, that they are a "stalker". Get a clue! You tend to have negative feelings for anyone that is not like you or shares your thoughts and beliefs. Maybe you sir, should go to Montclair and attend one of Dr. Ireland's sermons. You might learn something about happiness and tolerance in life. Rockaway residents tolerate you. Of course, not by choice, but nonetheless they do.

Thank you for proving my point. You always have to bring Mrs. Salberg up in your post. Whether or not you started it. You just can not resist mentioning her name. WOW! That's pretty sad. No offense. Ok, umm, confusion. "clueless Karen did re-read the posts"? Huh? Is this a question for Karen? Or were you trying to make a statement? Not too clear on that one.

Now, Mr. Doty, you just love proving my points. Thank you I truly appreciate it. I knew that you would never answer my question. Your answer was "this really isn't a question is it?" I believe that that would be classified as deflection. Actually sir, it is a question. That would be why there is a question mark at the end. You just can not answer it, can you? Ok, maybe if I ask it like this...Mr. Doty, what drives you to be such a bitter, unhappy man that wants to call people names, insult, lie and try to divide the town? Is that better? Now, I know that you won't answer that question either. Yet, I had to try.

I have to admit people like yourself, tend to intrigue me. I can not comprehend what makes life so bad that they feel it necessary to act they way you do. Life is a wonderful thing. Yes, we all have our ups and downs. And we all get into those "slumps" of self-hatred. Yet, you give the defination of "bitter" a whole new meaning. See, you do have something in your life that you have accomplished. You were able to redefine a word. Yet, that still leads us back to your negativity. Are you truly that unhappy with yourself or just life in general? We do have new medications available for stuff like that. You should consult your doctor. Oh, maybe he can help you answer my question.

Date: Tue Mar 23 1:31 PM, 2004

"I tend to "people watch". Call it my nature,

...call it stalking?

"call it my weird quirk"

...okay

Date: Tue Mar 23 1:49 PM, 2004

OMG! It's maps, the "Rockaway Township Stalker!"

p.s. I believe Mr. Grammar & Spelling Doty meant:

"I didnt bring her up--clueless Karen did; re-read the posts."

And for the record, I only brought up Lisa in this particular thread. You're the one who brings her up in all the others, Ted.

Date: Tue Mar 23 1:54 PM, 2004

Mr. Doty,

You will never just answer a question. Are you that afraid of your answers? Must be.

Oh, and by way, everyone at some point, on some level "people watch". Is everyone a stalker?

I think you need to get out more. You tend to live in a bubble. And as two people that I greatly respect have done to me, a few times I might add, I am going to "pop your bubble" YOU ARE A BITTER NASTY MAN! You do not know me. You couldn't pick me out of a crowd of 5. Yet, for some reason you go on the attack. I have not done a single thing to you and your existance. I asked a question. I noticed that you tend to be a bitter, unhappy man wanting to call people names, insult, lie, and try to divide the great town of Rockaway. So, I wanted to know why. If you felt that this was untrue and my observation was wrong or somewhat altered, then you should have just explained yourself. Might have changed my thoughts about you. Might have changed alot of people's thoughts about you. But no, you didn't even defend yourself. You just attacked and deflected. Therefore, my observation must be correct. I'm done. My point has been proven. You sir, have done nothing for this town but create drama. Get Some Professional Help. You are going to leave this world just as you are today. And that is truly very sad. I do hope that your son realizes what you really are. He may then have a chance to make something of his life. As it is very clear that you have made nothing out of yours.

Date: Tue Mar 23 2:01 PM, 2004

quote:

Originally posted by: karen
"And for the record, I only brought up Lisa in this particular thread.

...but YOU brought her up, not me

You're the one who brings her up in all the others, Ted."

ALL others? Clueless, if I've told you once I've told you a million times; DON"T EXAGGERAtE

Date: Tue Mar 23 7:00 PM, 2004

OK..one question????

Is the Christ Church application STILL TOO LARGE for Rockaway twp?

please chime in....

Ted, You do seem to bring me up at the oddest times. Lets focus on the issues. You still have not answered the question I asked. Do you think that CC will be good for the environment or our traffic?

Please let us know your thoughts on the facts in the application.

Lisa

Date: Wed Mar 24 9:39 AM, 2004

Originally posted by: Lisa Salberg
"Is the Christ Church application STILL TOO LARGE for Rockaway twp?

If you deal with the facts and not the lies you repeat to the point that you believe them to be facts, the best option for RT/Agilent Property. Is CC.

Ted, You do seem to bring me up at the oddest times. Lets focus on the issues.

I didn't invoke your name, "The clueless one"did.

You still have not answered the question I asked. Do you think that CC will be good for the environment or our traffic?

see above

Date: Wed Mar 24 10:32 AM, 2004

To the King of all Tedia:
(Yes, I made up that conjugation; call it poetic license).

You know I only "invoked" Lisa's name in this thread in reference to all the times you "invoke" her name in others, accusing her of every scandalous act you can think of, from not being "a do-gooder" to global warming!

Date: Wed Mar 24 11:20 AM, 2004

A do gooder is a bad thing?...get a clue

Date: Wed Mar 24 12:02 PM, 2004

Ted, note operative word: "NOT being a do-gooder"

Date: Wed Mar 24 12:18 PM, 2004

Ted, Karen, you two really seem to be a match made in heaven. Ever thought of giving it a shot?

Date: Wed Mar 24 12:30 PM, 2004

quote:

Originally posted by: Dr. Phil
"Ted, Karen, you two really seem to be a match ...

Karen is no match, she's clueless

Date: Wed Mar 24 12:37 PM, 2004

That sums it up for mr doty....

Quoted 3/24/04

"If you deal with the facts and not the lies you repeat to the point that you believe them to be facts, the best option for RT/Agilent Property. Is CC"
End quote

Well, we're glad you have stated your opinion, however wrong it is.

So, if CC comes, we can to point to you, if everthing isn't nicey nice, and run your sorry butt out of town???

Cause you know everything.

More than all these other people on the board, and all the other people that comes to meetings.

More than the Mayor and the planning board.

You are the supreme knowledge bearer.

How the heck to you get your big head in and out of your house???

Must be through the garage door cause that'd be the only one big enough.

Or perhaps you can summon the power and atomize youself to pass through walls.

Maybe you should start your own church Ted....or perhps your own religion.

If we were all in 4th grade, in the school yard, it would be fun to watch you get whomped each and every day because of your know -it-all attitude.

I hope you run for office again so we can all watch YOU LOSE again.

Date: Wed Mar 24 1:38 PM, 2004

Lets talk facts Ted:

First I need to get a better understanding of what documents you have read so that I can ask you direct and pointed question that you will be able to respond to.

Have you reviewed the following items:

RTWP Master Plan, zoning ord. book, site plan submitted by Christ Church, environmental report submitted by CC, traffic study submitted by CC, all documents submitted to the planning board by CC, documents submitted to the planning board from the RTWP environmental committee, Rockaway watershed, and other entities.

Related items: traffic studies from other project on Green Pond Rd over the past 5 years, new programs/regulations pending or inacted to protect water in NJ and related materials, demographics and urban sprawl data available from the state.

Please let me know which of these documents you have reviewed and then provide factual support as to why you claim CC is right for this location.

I am very interested in your responce.

Lisa